tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7047669476288565110.post6006024175132009058..comments2023-09-15T02:36:49.651-07:00Comments on A glimpse into my mind: Because you're a girl.hijaabified.beautyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05881880956097717407noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7047669476288565110.post-29986260527426300832010-03-15T22:39:28.294-07:002010-03-15T22:39:28.294-07:00Wa alaikum salaam Brother Umar.
Jazaka'Allah...Wa alaikum salaam Brother Umar. <br /><br />Jazaka'Allah Khair for your advice. I don't get too many brothers commenting on my blog so when one comments its a treat. <br /><br />You gave some good advice, and I agree. See the only thing is...I've tried the honesty thing with this brother in the past (apparently he's hooked..I have no idea why) and it just turned into this HUGE argument. <br /><br />I believe honesty works with some individuals, they take it for what it is. Whereas others...sugar coating things work. I haven't yet figured out what is gonna work with this particular individual. However it seems I've diverted his attention for a while.hijaabified.beautyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05881880956097717407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7047669476288565110.post-74519500274197746832010-03-06T08:39:39.671-08:002010-03-06T08:39:39.671-08:00assalaamu alaikum sister,
Yes, we men can be pret...assalaamu alaikum sister,<br /><br />Yes, we men can be pretty stupid some times but sometimes the kindest thing you can do when a guy is stuck on you is be honest with him, in as nice a way as possible. When you say you are too busy with work and school, he may hear not now but later and think there is hope. If you tell him up front that you are not interested in him, it may hurt his feeling temporarily but at least then he will move on and find someone else, inshaAllah.Umarnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7047669476288565110.post-4265939241965507752010-02-21T21:49:51.579-08:002010-02-21T21:49:51.579-08:00I totally agree with you-I hate that phrase "...I totally agree with you-I hate that phrase "Because you're a girl."shineyhttp://www.shiney-lightuponlight.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7047669476288565110.post-37834519159041501552009-12-30T06:48:55.416-08:002009-12-30T06:48:55.416-08:00Haha. This really cracked me up. Some boys are jus...Haha. This really cracked me up. Some boys are just really dumb. Oh wait, correction: almost all of them are. :PKanwalfulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04891061123244305574noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7047669476288565110.post-56128850034770075462009-12-25T23:10:15.800-08:002009-12-25T23:10:15.800-08:00True say! you took the thoughts right out of my br...True say! you took the thoughts right out of my brain.hijaabified.beautyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05881880956097717407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7047669476288565110.post-58328645096911902452009-12-08T00:24:28.857-08:002009-12-08T00:24:28.857-08:00That's some guys for you. They say the most st...That's some guys for you. They say the most stupidest things one can imagine. I try to be nice when rejecting guys but some come out with terrible things to say that make you go, yes thank you, you just confirmed that my decision was right.<br /><br />As for the "it's okay for you not you" bit, those guys are just stupid. Islam has said to both men and women to lower their gaze, keep good company, do good deeds and give in charity. I'm not sure where these fools got the idea that it's okay for them to act like gangsters and then think if a girl even does one thing they don't like it makes her a bad person/Muslim. Don't even pay attention to such guys. Avoid them at all costs. They are not worth any attention. :)single4nowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07129183381655781569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7047669476288565110.post-19863624329342931282009-12-07T21:46:27.970-08:002009-12-07T21:46:27.970-08:00Hahahahaaha that is so ludicrous! Wow, this man ob...Hahahahaaha that is so ludicrous! Wow, this man obviously has issues...<br /><br />I've heard the going out at night thing too...also, I've heard arguments against hijabis doing sheesha, which I find weird. Now, I don't advocate doing sheesha because unless its completely herbal, it alters your mind, and thus I recently stopped doing it, but the whole deal about hijabis specifically not doing it? If its bad, isn't it bad for all Muslims?farahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09692989182617909701noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7047669476288565110.post-40491024889940202972009-11-26T10:22:08.496-08:002009-11-26T10:22:08.496-08:00Alhamdulilah I've been doing Ok. Just busy wit...Alhamdulilah I've been doing Ok. Just busy with school and work and have therefore not been able to blog lately. InshaAllah I'll be back soon. Eid Mubarak to all of you and your families. Please remember me in your duas.hijaabified.beautyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05881880956097717407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7047669476288565110.post-9796900810322954212009-11-24T17:06:39.089-08:002009-11-24T17:06:39.089-08:00As Salaanmu 'alaikum sister,
How are you? Ins...As Salaanmu 'alaikum sister,<br /><br />How are you? InshaAllah you are ok.Sacrifice4Allahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11207434021829171688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7047669476288565110.post-50511117267173503602009-11-22T02:40:33.948-08:002009-11-22T02:40:33.948-08:00Wow, can't believe that guy!
Loved this post ...Wow, can't believe that guy! <br />Loved this post btw :) <br />Like you said, if it's not safe for women then why are the men always going there? Hmmm.cairo, lusaka, amsterdamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04955671720625835663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7047669476288565110.post-69670290984927184172009-11-12T20:35:19.747-08:002009-11-12T20:35:19.747-08:00Well then...I better get a move on cause my expira...Well then...I better get a move on cause my expiration date is approaching very soon. Althought, Alhamdulilah I still look very young...mistaken to be a teenager at times (not sure if that's good). <br /><br />But ya..its sad some people think its wrong to be out at certain times even tho you're not doing anything wrong....sigh.hijaabified.beautyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05881880956097717407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7047669476288565110.post-59172708001631586912009-11-12T05:23:10.057-08:002009-11-12T05:23:10.057-08:00I've heard these numerous times too. Although ...I've heard these numerous times too. Although I've just been told by guys I know that guys tend not to look at girls over 25. But considering I'm 27, but am often mistaken for being in my early twenties, I think I'm ok :-)<br /><br />What i really hate though is that somehow we are made to feel guilty that we are doing something wrong by being out late at night-even if it's women only.<br /><br />I have female friends who believe this too, thinking it's not right to go out at night, unless it's with family.bb_aishahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05881678054666657761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7047669476288565110.post-74323071515899615492009-11-11T20:36:32.814-08:002009-11-11T20:36:32.814-08:00"Subhan'Allah. I keep reminding myself th..."Subhan'Allah. I keep reminding myself that not every man out there is an idiot...insha'Allah there is still hope."<br /><br />lol hopefully that is the case sister, may Allah swt find you a pious and righteous spouse. Ameen. =)*MuslimChica*https://www.blogger.com/profile/09275957468218948243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7047669476288565110.post-75877187386853539302009-11-10T15:28:48.907-08:002009-11-10T15:28:48.907-08:00Sacrifice4Allah...I didn't believe it either b...Sacrifice4Allah...I didn't believe it either but when he kept going on about how I wasn't getting any younger, I quickly realized I had heard correctly. <br /><br />Mon Vie: Yes, 6 years. <br /><br />Subhan'Allah. I keep reminding myself that not every man out there is an idiot...insha'Allah there is still hope.hijaabified.beautyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05881880956097717407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7047669476288565110.post-76617031460163193582009-11-10T11:15:12.126-08:002009-11-10T11:15:12.126-08:006 YEARS!?!? My eyes are majorly bugging out right ...6 YEARS!?!? My eyes are majorly bugging out right now... @@<br /> O<br />no wonder why. NO MAN has the right to talk about a woman's biological clock..even I wouldn't talk about a womans biological clock to her! It's none of his biz!Ma Vie & Etchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10213028993139303118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7047669476288565110.post-28722695989914977172009-11-10T04:17:19.791-08:002009-11-10T04:17:19.791-08:00As Salaamu 'alaikum dearest sister,
Some peop...As Salaamu 'alaikum dearest sister,<br /><br />Some people can be so ignorant! I CANNOT believe the brother said "really think about settling down and having kids. You see, after a certain age, men won't be interested in you." That's shocking!Sacrifice4Allahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11207434021829171688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7047669476288565110.post-57571921343136173012009-11-09T16:50:23.918-08:002009-11-09T16:50:23.918-08:00This brother has been trying for 6 years (as long ...This brother has been trying for 6 years (as long as I've known him). I once thought I'd give him a chance, but as I started to get to know him I quickly learned he was much too immature for me and decided not to pursue the situation further. Since then, every year or so, he tries again. But this was the last straw....please don't talk to me about my biological clock...thank you.hijaabified.beautyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05881880956097717407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7047669476288565110.post-51019533522990899662009-11-09T11:26:23.454-08:002009-11-09T11:26:23.454-08:00Ugh! I hear you on that sister! And I'm pretty...Ugh! I hear you on that sister! And I'm pretty sure most women have been through that 'because you're a girl' issue. That guy really didn't want to let you go did he?!...some men just don't know when to quit!Ma Vie & Etchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10213028993139303118noreply@blogger.com